As a self-professed expert on niceness, I sure do love Halloween. For one glorious evening, our community becomes a shared experience. We cover our front steps in carved pumpkins and fake spiderwebs, “ooh” and “ahh” over the parade of costumes and fill the sidewalks and the air with fun and free candy. It’s collective magic-making, and I’m very grateful for it.
I’m also incredibly impressed by how many of our fellow Grand Forksers go above and beyond — or boo-yond — to make the holiday special. Last year, I wrote about how the neighborhoods of Belmont Road and Reeves Drive transform into a Halloween Hallmark movie. This year, I’d like to tell you about another kind of movie masterpiece — this time, on Desiree Drive.
There’s nice, there’s really nice, there’s North Dakota nice, and then there’s the Greater Grand Forks Sertoma Club. Founded by Jay Seeger on Nov. 1, 1958, under the motto “Service to Mankind,” the Sertoma Club has lent its hearts, hands and wallets to generations of Grand Forks residents. The work club members do is big in both impact and scale. For 68 years, they’ve lit up the Fourth of July skies with spectacular fireworks shows — the club’s weekly lunchtime meetings open with a prayer for “no rain on the Fourth of July” — and hosted an annual Independence Day festival that has been a community tradition for more than three decades. They are the organization behind Sertoma Park, one of the largest parks maintained by the Grand Forks Park District and home to a Japanese Garden, arboretum, Greenway-connected trails and Ali’s Boundless Playground, which was the first playground in North Dakota designed to be accessible to people with disabilities.
Cancer has a way of making a person feel like the loneliest member of a large club. Even for those surrounded by the very best family, friends, coworkers and community, there are still moments when it seems no one quite understands what someone is going through. Sometimes, what a person needs most isn’t another medical explanation; it’s another individual who can hold their hand and say, “Yep. Me too.”
That’s what makes a cancer support group so special. It is a place to truly answer the question, “How are you doing?” It’s a place to cope with the side effects of treatment. It’s a place to work through practical problems, like balancing work and personal care. It’s a place to communicate fear, anger, and sadness.
“Coming from a school size of about 70 and a class size of seven, many people assume that small schools lack opportunity, but they are dead wrong,” said Jade Uhlich, senior at Drake-Anamoose High School.
Jade is the dictionary definition of opportunity. She has participated in every single extracurricular activity available through school, including Future Business Leaders of America, Future Farmers of America, Students Against Destructive Decisions, 1ACT, Science Olympiad, Cyber Madness, Student Council, 4-H, Academic Challenge, National Science Bowl and volunteering at the school library, to name a few. She has served as the state and local officer for FBLA, and held the title of National Resource Director for the National Mountain Plains Council. And, if that wasn’t enough, when a program didn’t exist that she wanted to do, she created it — like reading to special needs students every Wednesday.
I’ve been writing about kind and warmhearted people for almost a decade, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that like attracts like; shake a tree to get one nice North Dakotan, and a whole bushel will come tumbling out.
For example, a lovely resident of Valley Senior Living in Grand Forks named Wendy wanted to support the Grand Forks Public Schools’ Giving Tree Pantry, and so she held a necessities drive at the facility — and because the staff and the families of Valley Senior Living wanted to support both Wendy and Grand Forks Public Schools, they donated in force. Wonderful birds of a feather flock together.
And, sometimes, they throw Frisbees together.
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